Ladies: things you should not do with your male besties

What are the boundaries that need to be set in your best friend relationship? What should you do and not do?
Everything in life works well when you have boundaries. That’s the only way to stay safe and not have people with issues all over the world.
As friends, there are certain things you can do or have access to but when he becomes your best friend, what usually happens is that all bets are off. They do all sorts of things with their best friends and if you want to be in a safe relationship you shouldn’t let it be so.
Things to never do with your male bestie;
1. Never undress around them
Many times we find that girls are very free with their besties. They talk about everything including personal things and private parts. They can be in the same room with a male bestie and be half-naked or undress in front of them.
Guys don’t get aroused like girls. Guys can be aroused by almost anything and most especially sight. When you undress in front of them, you should know they are aroused and if they are never aroused seeing you naked then you should be worried.
2. Cuddle with them or sleep on the same bed.
Girls spend the night at their male best friend’s places and they sleep on the bed with them, they cuddle and even spoon. Just so you know, while all that is on, he is heavily aroused and most likely ready to have sex with you. If anyone of you has relationships then that won’t sit well with your partners.
3. S3x
Sex is a no go area for you and your bestie. For most people that act is not a onetime thing and it’s very difficult to stay friends with someone you had sex with and not want to have more.
If you intend to keep having a lovely bestie relationship with him then s3x should be completely off the table. Once you get there, things get weird and then you can never go back.
There are so many rules to follow, so many things that you shouldn’t do but I’d like to think that these are some of the most important ones. No sex or anything physical, guys are very physical. It’s better not to get them aroused and tempted.

30 Comments

  1. That is a good advice.once a lady sleep on the same bed with her bestie as a man.her man must be aroused and tempted to have sex with her.As a lady ,she has to prevent it from happening

  2. That is a good advice.once a lady sleep on the same bed with her bestie as a man.her man must be aroused and tempted to have sex with her.As a lady ,she has to prevent it from happening

  3. This is a very good advice especially forwe ladies,as long as you don’t disrespect your self as a lady by not exposing your body to a male friend ,he will not disrespect you by having sex with you.

  4. These points are correct, however, most times our closeness to our supposed besties spark misconceptive reactions from those around us, and i think there should be a limit to this closeness.

  5. These points are correct, however, most times our closeness to our supposed besties spark misconceptive reactions from those around us, and i think there should be a limit to this

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