1. Don’t shout at your
wife when you are
talking. It really
hurts her.
Proverbs 15:1

2. Do not speak evil
of her to anyone.
Your wife will become
who you call her.
Gen. 2:19

3. Do not share her love
or affection with another
It is called Adultery.
Matt. 5:28

4. Never compare your
wife to another woman.
If the other woman was
good for you, God would
have given her to you.
2 Cor. 10:12

5. Be gentle and
accommodating. She
has sacrificed so much
to be with you.
It hurts her deeply
when you are hash
and irritating.
Be tender.
Eph. 4:2

6. Hide nothing from her.
You are now one and
she’s your helpmate.
Let there be no secret
you are keeping
from her.
Gen. 2:25

7. Do not make negative
comment about her
body. She risked her
life and beauty to carry
your babies. She is a
living soul not just
flesh and blood.
Proverbs 18:22

8. Do not let her body
determine her worth.
Cherish and appreciate
her even till old age.
Eph. 5:29

9. Never shout at her
in the public and in
private. If you have
an issue to sort with
her, do it in the privacy
of your room.
Matt. 1:19

10. Thank and appreciate
her for taking good
care of you, the kids
and the house. It is
a great sacrifice she
is making.
1 Thesso. 5:18

11. All women cannot
cook the same way;
appreciate your
wife’s food.
It is not easy to cook
three meals a day,
365 days a year
for several years.
Pro. 31:14

12. Never place your
siblings before her.
She is your wife.
She is one with you.
She must come
before your family.
Gen. 2:24

13. Invest seriously in
her spiritual growth.
Buy books, tapes and
any material that will
edify her & strengthen
her walk with God.
That’s the best thing
you can do for her.
Eph. 5:26

14. Spend time with her
to do Bible study
and pray.
James 5:16

15. Make time to play
with her and enjoy
her company.
Remember when you
are dead, she’s gonna
be by your grave but
your friends may be
too busy to attend
your funeral.
Ecc. 9:9

16. Never use money
to manipulate or
control her. All your
money belongs to
her. She is a joint heir
with you of the
grace of God.
1 Pet. 3:7

17. Do not expose her
weakness. You will be
exposing yourself too.
Be a shield around her.
Eph. 5:30

18. Honour her parents
and be kind to her
SOS. 8:2

19. Never cease to tell
her how much you
love her all the days
of her life. Women
are never tired of
hearing that.
Eph. 5:25

20. Grow to be like Jesus.
That’s the only way
you can be a good
and godly husband.
Rom. 8:29



  1. hmm know I have wrong her and have taken her pride away from her,I have long been a wicked man, but now I have realized my mistake, maybe she could ever forgive me.

  2. There is one thing I learnt on how we should treat our wives,please husband abeg let us make our wife be up to our standard, don’t cheat on your wives,make her what you want her to become.

  3. Wonderful and educative,I wish all men will have this mindset,to know that women are weaker being that needs to be treated with love and care. Let’s cherish them for the rest of our life because they made us complete.

  4. Woah.Thanks for this wonderful post. Hope all the husbands get to read it and make amends and do the right time bcos women are specially made by God.

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